8 Ways Fertility Treatments Actually Make You Better At Dating
byJill Di Donato
When I decided to undergo reproductive assistance to become a single mom by choice, I thought, "Well, this is the end of dating for the foreseeable future." Simultaneously, men started coming out of the woodwork and I was pleasantly forced to rethink my stance. I was completed nonplussed to discover the ways fertility treatments make you better at dating. First off, I'm pretty up front about my plan, and while I initially thought being honest about my choice would be a How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days moment, I've yet to experience a situation in which a prospective date was sent running for the figurative hills.
As a former party girl and sex columnist, let's just say I've got a lot of dating under my belt. While I've had happy, longterm relationships, I've come to the conclusion that the traditional, "nuclear" family isn't for me. Right now, that is. One of the things I've learned since deciding to be a single mom by choice, is that it's vital that I remain open to the infinite possibilities of the universe. So, although I never dreamt of my wedding day as a little girl, anything can happen. Of course, in order for partnership and commitment with a grown-ass man to be a thing that does actually happen, dating is kind of necessary.
Because I'm somewhat of a dating expert (or, you know, at least experienced), I've been on a boatload of bad dates. To be fair, some of my dating debacles were because of poor choices I made. But you know what? Making the choice to undergo assisted reproduction and fertility treatments has improved my dating game in ways I never fathomed. Now, said bad dates are few and far between, and here are just a few reasons why: