Christie Drozdowski

American girl living in England writing about fashion, beauty, body image, and musings on being a first-time mother. You can find her traipsing around the coast eating fish and chips, thrifting in local consignment shops, or typing on her computer coming up with a smug bio that perfectly captures her preferred persona in under a hundred words. Her writing has also appeared on consciousmagazine.co, belovedmag.com, and in print (snob) in Cottage Hill Magazine.
Recent Articles

An Open Letter To My Nipple Shield For Saving My Boobs

You were there from the very beginning. I mean, within hours of meeting my new baby daughter, I met you as well. My nipples were terribly flat making it difficult to learn how to get my fresh, hungry babe to latch on and drink the colostrum that bega…
By Christie Drozdowski

Let's Be Real, Breastfeeding In Public Is Way Harder When You're Fat

I've always had big boobs. Breastfeeding made them both bigger and saggier at the same time. I mean, there's never been a more appropriate time — if I can get away with saying this — for them to be called "jugs" than when breastfeeding with bigger br…
By Christie Drozdowski

Can We All Agree Date Night Is A Classist Fantasy

Even before I had my daughter, I remember seeing posts on social media about the elusive but very important “date night.” My friends who had already started their families seemed to all be in agreement that making it a priority to go out with their p…
By Christie Drozdowski

My Breasts Were A No-Go Zone During Sex While I Was Nursing, & Yeah It's A Sacrifice

I love having my breasts touched during foreplay. I absolutely love having boobs. I also loved breast-feeding, but having sex with my husband during the months I was nursing meant I wouldn’t let him fondle one of my most-prized body parts in the proc…
By Christie Drozdowski

My Daughter Wasn’t Breathing & What My Husband Did In That Moment Made All The Difference

I will never forget the first glimpse I had of my daughter. A flash of a tiny face with us on the outside, then gone from sight. My baby wasn’t breathing after being delivered via c-section, so she was transferred to a table outside my vision. I was …
By Christie Drozdowski

This Joke We Make Right After Birth Is Actually Freakin' Gross, So Let’s Stop Making It

A few weeks before I gave birth to my first child, my mom told me a story. After she gave birth to me, her doctor joked with my dad about "putting in an extra stitch" for him while sewing her up. She had just delivered vaginally, and she knew the jok…
By Christie Drozdowski

I Dropped Everything & Moved To Europe With My 1-Year-Old

Last fall, I packed up my life, left my home state, and moved to Europe with my husband and 1-year-old. My husband is a European Union citizen, so we decided to take advantage of his ability to live and work in another EU country while he had the cha…
By Christie Drozdowski

I Hope My Daughter Never Loses Her Sense Of Adventure

My daughter is nearly 2 years old. She is a wild child, and I absolutely love it. Most kids her age are open to exploring and are entertained by the smallest things, but from seeing the way some of the other toddlers in her weekly play group seem to …
By Christie Drozdowski

Moms, The Car Seat-Shaming Needs To Stop

Earlier this week, Kim Kardashian West posted a photo of her son Saint in a car seat. Moms went haywire, posting thousands of comments criticizing her for putting her infant son in a forward-facing car seat, as opposed to a rear-facing one. I sympat…
By Christie Drozdowski

I Tried Tantric Sex For A Week

“Let’s look at this one,” I said, suggestively pulling a copy of The Kama Sutra from the shelf. My husband and I were at our favorite bookstore downtown, and we had just gotten married. As we flipped through the pages, we snickered and chuckled like …
By Christie Drozdowski

I Tried To See The World Through My Toddler's Eyes

Recently, I’ve been feeling like my relationship with my toddler daughter is missing something. Despite not knowing exactly what that was, I started thinking of ways I could bridge the gap. I felt I was lacking in my connection to her, so I decided I…
By Christie Drozdowski

Living 4,000 Miles From Family Is Hardest On My Baby

“Those are such good kisses!” I hear my parents say to my 18-month-old daughter as she kisses them through the phone screen. She’s video chatting, or should I call it video playing, with her grandparents who are over 4,000 miles away — a separation n…
By Christie Drozdowski

Bonding With My Toddler Is Really Hard For Me

“The toddlers are coming! Run!” the little girl shouted. I watched her climb down from the play equipment in the Chick-fil-A playground, presuming she was about 5 years old. She bustled toward the door while two fumbling toddlers followed behind her …
By Christie Drozdowski

Why Are We So Obsessed With Instagram Moms?

There’s a corner of the internet, fostered in large part by the social media boss that Instagram has become, where all the mothers hang out, posting beautiful images of their babies, blogging about their toddler’s cutest moments, and generally sharin…
By Christie Drozdowski

The First Time My Baby Reached For Me Was Amazing

This time last year, I was pouring my heart and soul into my role as a new mom. Though I had been giving my daughter endless cuddles for almost two months, I knew that a baby showing affection doesn't happen until a little later. I remember thinking …
By Christie Drozdowski

My Baby Self-Weaned & It Almost Broke My Heart

On the night I knew my daughter was self-weaning, which will henceforth be referred to as the “No More Mama Milk” night, my reaction took me completely by surprise. I didn’t have a set time to stop breastfeeding, but I also didn’t expect my baby to s…
By Christie Drozdowski

I'm So Glad I Breastfed My Baby After My C-Section

When I got pregnant, I had two main goals: to deliver vaginally and to breastfeed. I wanted to do things the way I thought they were "meant" to be done. Fulfilling what I believed to be the two major purposes of my female body — to have a baby vagina…
By Christie Drozdowski

I Don't Care That My Daughter Sucks Her Thumb

My daughter was a thumbsucker right from the start. In her 12-week ultrasound photo, there she was in the profile shot, the thumb in her mouth perfectly visible. I was fascinated by her ability to suck her thumb in the womb, and it ended up being my …
By Christie Drozdowski

The Real Reason Why Having Another Baby Scares The Hell Out Of Me

Motherhood has made me a much more flexible person, simply because there was so much about my pregnancy and my birth plan that were impossible to control. I planned not to have a c-section, but I ended up having one anyway. I planned to breastfeed fo…
By Christie Drozdowski

I Waited Until I Was In My 30s To Have Kids, & I’ll Never Regret It

When people talk about getting pregnant after 30, it seems like all you hear is bad news related to fertility issues, or the health risks of conceiving later in life. And while those risks do exist, I have absolutely no regrets about waiting until my…
By Christie Drozdowski