When a relationship is new, you can't get enough of your partner. You think their wacky sense of fashion and constant humming is adorable. But as things progress, you may begin to notice that some of those traits you thought were cute are actually downright annoying. And although it can be easy to point out your partner's faults, it may be more difficult to see some of your own unflattering traits. Which is why you need someone to point out some of the infuriating things you do that drive a wedge in your relationship.
Things like constantly keeping score, getting carried away with PDA, and comparing your partner to someone from the past can cause some major resentment and lead to long term issues in your relationship. But the good news is that once you identify these qualities in yourself, you can begin to work on changing your behavior and fostering a healthier relationship.
So take a look at this list, and then take a good look in the mirror to see if you are doing any of these things that can be both infuriating to your partner and damaging to your relationship. The coming new year is a great time to start with a fresh perspective on your relationship. You'll thank me on Valentine's Day.