There is an art to being an older sibling, or a "Big," as my family calls it. Bigs pave the way for their younger brothers and sisters, taking on the role of fearless leader when it comes to learning to ride or trying broccoli. It isn't always easy to bear that kind of responsibility, but these 13
picture books for older siblings might make it a bit easier.
You're probably not surprised to learn that being a Big can be stressful; the trope of the over-achieving, high-strung firstborn child has its root in reality, with
Psychology Today reporting that "the firstborn child can end up feeling very pressured to succeed and become a perfectionist, often equating love with success." But it's not like you're torturing your kid by giving them a brother or sister, either. Indeed, Time reports that "First-borns are statistically likelier to be CEOs, senators and astronauts — and to make more money than their younger siblings, too," so you can rest easy knowing your second kid might be the best thing that ever happened to your first baby.
All that being said, every Big could use a reminder of how important they are to your family and why it's cool to have a sibling from time to time. So make room on your bookshelf for these must-haves.
1 'Lucia the Luchadora and the Million Masks' by Cythnia Lenor Garza, illustrated by Alyssa Bermudez
The toughest fighter is back in the second installment of Cythnia Lenor Garza's
series (Penguin Random House), and she's dealing with her toughest enemy yet: a pesky little sister. Lucia is furious when her younger sibling Gemma rips a hole in her fighter mask, but her fury fades when she realizes her mask is missing and Gemma is the only one who can help her get it back. The Big of your family could learn a thing or two from Lucia and Gemma, a pair who realize they're stronger together than they ever are apart. Lucia the Luchadora 2 'Julius, The Baby Of The World' by Kevin Henkes
Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse fame, isn't too fond of her new brother Julius, rolling her eyes when her parents call him "the baby of the world." She makes a point of tormenting her unwelcome sibling, trying to scare him and even calling him "disgusting." Lilly plans for her loathing to be lifelong, until Cousin Garland starts making his own mean comments about Julius, and Lilly jumps to her brother's defense. Kevin Henkes's (HarperCollins) will show young readers the important role only a big sibling can play, giving your Big some motivation to bond with the invader in the crib. Julius, The Baby Of The World 3 'Jinx And The Doom Fight Crime!' by Lisa Mantchev, illustrated by Samantha Cotterill
Former foes turn allies in Lisa Mantchev's
(Simon and Schuster) Jinx And The Doom Fight Crime! , an imaginative story that will show big siblings that having a sidekick isn't so bad. Jinx and the Doom used to waste their time tussling each other, but they decide to use their powers for good to stop real enemies, like washing machines, godzilla, and more. This is a great one to add to your collection if your little ones have been at each other's throats lately. 4 'Babies Don't Eat Pizza' by Diane Danzig, illustrated by Debbie Tilley
First-time big siblings will relate to the many questions Diane Danzig answers in
(Penguin Random House), a go-to guide for adjusting to life with a new bundle of joy in the house. Whether your first-born is wondering what babies eat or why they have to sleep so much, Danzig has them covered, speaking to her readers in a lighthearted and matter-of-fact tone that gives older siblings the credit they deserve. Babies Don't Eat Pizza
From the moment your kiddo hears the phrase "your baby" used in the text, they'll understand this new person belongs to them, too, bringing your family closer together.
5 'The New Baby (Little Critter)' by Mercer Mayer
Mercery Mayer's beloved Little Critter is off to a new adventure, and this one might be his toughest challenge yet: a little sister.
(Penguin Random House) shows Little Critter figuring out how to be the best big brother ever, mastering rocking his baby sis to sleep, pushing her stroller, and even changing her diapers. (A brave soul.) Think of the picture book as a way to get your child excited about all the fun ways they can help your family grow. The New Baby 6 'Nine Months: Before a Baby Is Born' by Miranda Paul
Parents have long had an abundance of guides to pregnancy, but no one had created a guide for siblings until Miranda Paul and Caldecott-honored illustrator Jason Chin teamed up on the brilliant
(Neal Porter Books), out April 23. This picture book shows us the development of the baby alongside the family preparing to welcome its newest member — something sure to get a future Big excited. Nine Months: Before A Baby Is Born 7 'The New Small Person' by Lauren Child
Adjusting to life with a sibling can be tough, and Elmore Green is definitely having some growing pains in
by Lauren Child, beloved for her descriptive illustrations. Elmore's unwelcome little sister starts touching all of his things, isn't a fan of favorite TV shows, and worst of all, it seems like everyone likes her better than him. All he wants is for life to go back to how it was before, until one fateful night. The New Small Person 8 'Hello In There: A Big Sister's Book Of Waiting' by Jo Witek, illustrated by Christine Roussey
Made for over-eager siblings-to-be who just can't wait for the new baby to arrive,
by Jo Witek might help your kiddo gain a little patience throughout your pregnancy, giving them ideas for how they can connect to your growing baby before they even come into the world. Plus, the book is oversized and interactive, so reading time has never been more fun. Hello In There: A Big Sister's Book Of Waiting 9 'What Brothers Do Best' by Laura Numeroff, illustrated Lynn Munsinger
Becoming a big brother is no easy feat, especially if you've never been one before. Help your little one prepare for what life will be like with a sibling by giving them the rundown on what exactly a big brother does in
(Chronicle Books) by Laura Numeroff, a charming story that sheds light on all the fun things you can do with a sibling. Whether you're climbing trees or making music, Numeroff shows readers that a sibling can be a built-in best friend. What Brothers Do Best 10 'Wolfie The Bunny' by Ame Dyckman, illustrated by Zachariah OHora
Dot the bunny is anything but thrilled when her family adopts a wolf son — what if he eats everyone she loves? Dot's parents don't want to hear anything but praise for Wolfie, and she fears the worst. But when Wolfie's in danger, will Dot have a change of heart? Readers will relate to Ame Dyckman's
(Hachette) no matter what their family looks like, and the heartwarming humor will be make your next story time a joy. Wolfie The Bunny 11 'I'm A Big Sister' by Joanna Cole, illustrated by Rosalinda Kightley
A go-to for parents expecting their second child, Joanna Cole's
(HarperCollins) is a catalogue of all the wonderful things Bigs can expect to become part of their lives once their sibling arrives. The simple and sweet story is full of earnest joy between brother and sister, which is all you could wish for your kids, right? Psst: the companion I'm A Big Sister is a hit too. I'm A Big Brother 12 'Zoe's Room (No Sisters Allowed!)' by Bethanie Murguia
(Scholastic), Queen Zoe is dismayed when her parents have her younger sister Addie move into her room, ruining Zoe's perfect oldest kid kingdom full of tea parties and stargazing. She thinks nothing can change her mind, but then a thunderstorm shifts how she feels about her unwelcome roommate. Bethanie Murguia's tale of compromise and camaraderie might have your firstborn begging for bunkbeds. Zoe's Room (No Sisters Allowed!) 13 'Lottie & Walter' by Anna Walker
Lottie's baby brother is in the background of this sweet story about a big sister who worries there are bad things under the surface of her local pool. As Lottie's mom totes about her little brother, Lottie discovers a new friend, Walter, who teaches her to have fun again.
A subtle and sensitive story from the author/illustrator behind the much-celebrated
Florette, will show your Big how brave and grownup they are. Lottie & Walter Available May 7 from Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.