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5 Fights You Might Have During Fertility Treatment, When You Should Be Extra Kind

Growing your family can be an exciting time. But for couples who have decided to use fertility treatments to help them conceive, stress and frustration can also be a part of the process. Even though you are both working towards the same goal, fertility treatments can end up pushing some couples to their limits. Fertility treatments can take a physical, emotional, and financial toll on even the happiest couples. If you and your partner are experiencing issues trying to conceive, you should know the fights you might have during fertility treatment when you should be extra kind to each other.

How long you are willing to try, how much you are willing to spend, and whether or not to share your story with others are some of the major sources of conflict that can leave some couples feeling disconnected and resentful of one another.

But as you go through the treatment process, it is important that you and your partner not place blame on one another for your fertility issues. As Baby Center mentioned, couples should remember to take care of each other emotionally and work together to solve the problems. If you are not able to solve your problems together, don't be afraid to seek outside help. Resolve: The National Fertility Association has frequently asked questions and a directory of professionals who are trained to help couples who are trying to conceive on their website.  

To help prepare you for what can be a tough process, here are a few fights you and your partner may have during fertility treatments, as well as some ways to solve them.

1. How Much You're Willing To Spend

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Depending on how long you try to conceive, fertility treatments can become an expensive process. If you don't set limits in the beginning, it's easy for things to get out of control. As Self mentioned, the financial stress of fertility treatments can be a major source of conflict for couples.

2. How Long You're Willing To Try

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Although you may be willing to do whatever it takes to conceive, your partner may want to set limits on how long you try and how much money you spend. As Baby Center mentioned, it's important for you and your partner to agree on how long you plan to try to get pregnant.

3. Should You Share With Others

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If you've decided not to share the details of your fertility treatments with your friends and family members, you can feel like you are all alone. If you and your partner need help coping with your feelings, a therapist who deals with fertility issues can help.

4. How Will It Affect Your Sex Life

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When you're trying to conceive, sex with your partner can feel more like a job than something that you both should enjoy. According to Self, sex can become stressful and negative for couples going through fertility treatments.

5. Who To Blame (No One, By The Way)

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If you are having trouble getting pregnant, you and your partner may begin pointing fingers at one another. According to Healthywomen.org, it's common for frustrated couples to have arguments over who is to blame for their fertility issues.