I lost my virginity at an age that shall remain undisclosed, but let's just say I was old enough to be ready physically, not quite ready emotionally, have certain expectations thanks to the movies. What I didn't expect? A lack of real pleasure. And this minimal pleasure continued for quite some time. Years later, when I had sex with my would-be-husband, it was damn near perfect. And though I couldn't pinpoint it then, I realized it was so good because your sex life gets better as you get older.
With time comes carnal knowledge, and true pleasure. Growing into your most passionate sexual self involves a little magic ( the right chemistry ), confidence ( ask for what you want ), and hormones ( increasing your sex drive ). There's a lot to love about sex as you age, and here are just some of the highlights.