When it comes to sex, regardless of how experienced you may be, there's an elusive spot that takes some practice to find. Whether you're going solo or with a partner, the G-spot is something that you've heard about and undoubtedly wondered how to access. Because the myths are true — the G-spot is an erogenous zone that can bring you some major pleasure. Lucky for you, there are certain moves to hit your G-spot that you can take with you the next time you're headed to the bedroom.
If you've never experienced a G-spot orgasm before, you might not know how it feels. (Hint: it's great.) You may want to experiment with yourself first, so you can help guide your partner to your G-spot the next time you're getting down. According to Cosmopolitan, it may take some time to find your G-spot. "You're seeking a spongy, puckered, or slightly ridged area, like the roof of your mouth," Celeste Hirschman, assistant professor at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality told the publication. A good indication you've found your G-spot (or your partner has), is suddenly feeling a need to pee. According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, this is because the G-spot is so close to the urethra and can trigger that feeling. But there's no need to worry, after a few seconds it will pass, and you'll be well on your way to a very, very intense orgasm courtesy of your G-spot.
Debby Herbenick, associate director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, told Cosmopolitan that doggy style offers you maximum access to achieving a g-spot orgasm. "Being on your stomach with your legs close together sandwiches the vaginal walls, so it's almost impossible for your guy's penis not to come in contact with your G-spot," Herbenick said. As if you needed an excuse to spice things up.
2X Marks The Spot
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin told Bustle that working out an "X marks the spot" position with your partner. Find a surface that's about hip height for your partner, then lie down on it with your legs draping over the edge. Marin said that with your partner standing in front of you, they should lift your legs into the air and cross them over one another so they make an X. "Crossing your legs creates a very tight fit that is sure to please," Maris said. And being flat on your back allows the natural curve of an erection to stroke precisely against your G-spot.
With your legs up, resting on your partner's shoulders, you create the ability for your partner to treat you to deep, powerful penetration. And, like Marin told Bustle about the above position, being flat on your back provides the perfect position for the curve of an erection to stroke your G-spot.
Though you might think you have to try a new-fangled position to reach a G-spot orgasm, you can reach that bliss in the good old missionary position. By modifying missionary a teensy bit and propping a few pillows under your butt, and having your partner enter you at a slightly upward angle, you'll give be giving your partner better access to your upper vaginal wall, according to Danielle Harel, professor of sexology at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality
According to Cosmopolitan, sex while spooning not only gives you the intimacy of lying side by side, but gives you major access to G-spot-rubbing and penetration. With your partner's arms wrapped around you, you feel close and connected, and have the opportunity for a major orgasm.
6Modified Doggy Style
With this twist on doggy style, you'll hit all the right angles. Marin told Bustle that by starting off in doggy style and slowly lowering yourself until you're flat on your stomach, he can change the angle by adjusting his body, and you can reap the benefits, including a G-spot orgasm.
7Girl On Top
Jessica O’Reilly, a sexologist, told Women's Health that girl on top is most effective for hitting the G-spot. She noted that that tilting your body back while you're straddling your partner allows the pressure of your partner inside of you to push right up against your vaginal wall. Bonus? Most guys last longer in girl on top position, too. Not to mention your partner will have better access to your clitoris, which means you can have a blended orgasm.