7 Reasons Not To Be Embarrassed About Hating Foreplay
byLindsay E. Mack
For some women, foreplay is an absolute necessity. They need a good 20 minutes of buildup before they’re in the right place — mentally and physically — to really enjoy sex. And there are countless articles and sex advice columns that address this common need, cajoling men to be more accommodating of this need. But on the flip side, some women could take it or leave it. And if this sounds like you, there’s no need to feel weird; in fact, there are plenty of reasons not to be embarrassed about hating foreplay.
As long as you’re happy with your sex life and the absence of foreplay works well for you and your partner, then there is no harm done. Sexuality is tremendously variable, so what works for one woman might leave you feeling “meh” at best. And that’s fine! It’s the spice of life and all that.
So if you’d rather spend 20 minutes watching Netflix instead of having your neck nuzzled (or whatever variation you dislike), then you do you. In fact, there’s probably a lot of women who would love to skip the need for this lengthy ramping up process and just get straight to the goods. After all, delayed gratification is not for everybody.