Can you have too much of a good thing? Well, ask a lady whose SO is rather endowed. Sometimes this blessing can make the logistics of sex somewhat difficult. But you can certainly try out some sex positions he’s big, because this is one challenge that is worth taking on.
If you’re with a real-life Mr. Big, it can make certain positions tricky, if not impossible. But this is a good reason to experiment with something new. And as far as problems go, this is a pretty nice one to have. After all, you’ve managed to find a somewhat-mythical sex partner in the wild. It’s the sort of non-problem that is nice to have.
And don’t worry: you don’t have to be a contortionist to pull off any of these positions. They’re just easy variations of your typical skill set. Of course, the magic ingredient in all relationships is communication, so as long as you and your SO are on the same page, you can’t really go wrong. As long as he’s considerate about taking it easy when appropriate, you will definitely find a few positions that benefit you both. Just try not to brag about him too much to your friends.
Taking control is one way to make sure your SO doesn't go too far or too fast. According to Cosmopolitan, woman-on-top is a good positions, because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Basically, it's the best way to keep everyone happy.
2. Spooning Inversion
Well, he's obviously going to be the big spoon. "The spooning inversion with the man on his side and the woman on her back is an extremely intimate pose," sexologist Emily Morse told Glamour. "Both partners can cuddle closely as the angle of this position puts pressure in all the right places for both parties, without discomfort." With a little repositioning, you can find your groove in no time.
3. Coital Alignment Technique
This is one way to use his size to your advantage, and perhaps achieve the mythical orgasm from missionary position. According to Psychology Today, the Coital Alignment Technique, or CAT, requires the man to lie on top and shifts himself forward so that his chest is closer to one of her shoulders. This causes his penis moves more up and down. This is definitely a win-win scenario.
4. Side Saddle
It's girl-on-top with a ninety degree turn. As explained on weWomen, side saddle allows you plenty of control but "lets you both into a completely different experience by you making slow, swiveling corkscrew motions." It's a fresh take on an old favorite.
5. Standing Up
Lean against a wall for added support. You can make this cinema-worthy move work in real life.
6. On The Lap
Feeling kind of lazy? You can both sit. According to The Health Site, having the woman sits on top allows for deep penetration. You can also control the intensity to keep from getting overwhelmed.
7. Reverse Cowgirl
Hey, it's a classic for a reason. As explained in Women's Health, reverse cow girl lets you take control of pace and rhythm. In other words, there's everything right about this one.