If you've never been part of a nasty breakup, consider yourself lucky. And if you have, then welcome to the club. Getting over someone you once loved is not easy. But it's even harder when that person has done you wrong in a big, big way. Between the temptation to stalk your ex down and demand an explanation, wanting to curl up into a ball and cry, and wanting to get back out there to prove you're 100 percent OK... yeah. It's easy to go about healing in all the wrong ways. But there are some ways to get over an ex who has done you wrong that aren’t destructive and may actually help you.
OK, to be fair that's not totally accurate. There's no exact formula for getting over someone who's ruined your life and broken your heart. No one thing works for everyone who's ever been wronged. Just remember, it's a process. It takes a different amount of time for everyone. There's no set time period. There's no set formula. There's only you, time, and trial and error. Take a few of the suggestions below, apply liberally, and repeat when you're ready. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself.