No matter how much you love your significant other and no matter how many adorable pictures you post of each other on Instagram, the truth is all couples fight. They fight about every day tasks and about big issues that really matter. But sometimes the fights you have with your partner are not what they seem. Sometimes the fights really have nothing to do with the two of you. Sometimes they have to do with something else entirely. Often there are hidden meanings behind fights with your partner. But how do we know what they are?
Don't get me wrong. Fighting in your relationships can be healthy, and the making up can be lots of fun. What's not fun is that everyone is worse for the wear after an argument and those hurtful feeling can stay with us. So the next time you find yourself picking a fight with your significant other or they are getting angry over something completely trivial, take a step back and think about these nine hidden meanings behind fights with your partner to get to the underlying reasons. Knowing why you are really fighting could mean ending an argument before it starts or really hurting the one we love by fighting it out.