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9 Little Things To Do During Girl On Top To Make It Better

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When you think about sex positions, you may feel like you already know everything there is to know. After all, how many ways are there to do what comes naturally? Fortunately, people are pretty clever when finding out the many ways to feel good. In fact, there are plenty of little things to do during girl on top to make it better than ever before. Because if you're going to do all of the work, you might as  well enjoy it, right?

The woman-on-top position has long been a favorite because it puts you in the driver's seat, so to speak, and allows for some of that essential clitoral stimulation. But if you've never been able to quite make the position work for you, or even if you just wind up exhausted after a few minutes of trying, then these tips can help you elevate your game. And if you've only rarely experimented with this move before, then now is the time to try it out in a new way. Who knows. You and your SO just might decide this is your new go-to move. If nothing else, knowing how to make the woman-on-top position better than ever is a great card to have up your sleeve any time you want to mix things up a bit.

1. Get Rhythmic

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Nothing says you have to keep the same pace the whole time. Take a cue from Women's Health and adjust your speed and rhythm when you take charge. This lets you switch up the types of stimulation you receive and helps keep the experience novel and interesting.

2. Multitask

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Invite your partner to get in on the action. According to Cosmopolitan, girl-on-top means your SO has a free hand for stimulating your breasts and clitoris. Work together to make your experience even hotter.  

3. Go Oval

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Maybe the up-and-down motion isn't quite working for you. In this case, you can take a note from Redbook and move in an oval motion around your partner. This may help make your clitoral stimulation even more intense.

4. Try Lights-Off

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If you're a bit nervous or self-conscious about taking charge, then you can ease into the position one sense at a time. According to Your Tango, going at it with the lights off can remove a lot of pressure. You don't have to worry about what any move or expression looks like.

5. Invite Your Partner To Participate

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Sure, sometimes it's fun to let your partner lay back and relax while you take charge. But as noted in Bad Girls Bible, it can also be enjoyable to have your partner actively participate by thrusting and rocking his hips. Just don't let him throw off your rhythm.

6. Re-position Yourself

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There's a whole world beyond woman-on-top and reverse cowgirl. You could try out, the "joystick joyride," in which the woman places her legs nearer her partner's head and supports her weight with her hands, as explained in Cosmopolitan. (It makes more sense when you see the illustration). This is one way to take control in a unique way.

7. Take Breaks

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Sure, it may not look like you're doing much activity, but this position can be surprisingly tiring. Take a tip from Love Panky and occasionally rest your weight on your hands to take some of the pressure off your leg muscles. Of course, consistent practice may help you develop those muscles and last even longer.

8. Lean In

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Sometimes the tiniest moves can make all the difference. For instance, if you tip your pelvis forward, you may be able to get in more clitoral contact with his abdomen, as suggested in Women's Health. Hey, it's worth a shot.

9. Reverse It

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You may think the reverse cowgirl position is all about giving your partner a show. But it turns out the position might be a great way to hit your G-spot, according to Good to Know. You and your partner can experiment to find out if this works for you.