Being in a relationship can be such a beautiful thing. From the way they make your heart flutter to the way they say "I love you," your partner probably knows every way to light up your world. But despite their ability to make you feel all tingly inside, every couple has a time where they begin to argue. Whether it's for things that you did or didn't do, arguments will arise and you will be able to move past them. Unfortunately, there may be instances where there are reasons you're fighting with your partner that have nothing to do with you.
Back when I was in college and dating my high school sweetheart, there was a time in our relationship where we did nothing but argue. Hey blew everything out of proportion and blamed me for everything. It got to the point where I just thought I wasn't built for relationships, because it felt as if I wasn't able to do anything right to him. That's when I started to realize that the reason I was fighting with my partner had nothing to do with me. We were fighting because he had unresolved issues within himself that he wasn't ready to deal with. It may have took me awhile to gather that, but after I did, it made the understanding much easier.
If you're not sure whether or not the reasons you and your partner are arguing have to do with you, these nine reasons may help you sort it out.