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9 Sex Positions That'll Help You Orgasm Quickly, Because That Tantric Stuff Takes Time

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The movies make it look so easy to power through hour-long lovemaking sessions. And sure, in a perfect world every encounter could last for the entirety of a leisurely afternoon and evening. But in the real world, most people have a lot of stuff that needs doing every day. After several hours of dealing with commutes, work, and the other peripheries of daily life, maybe you just want to get in a sex position that helps you orgasm quickly and call it a day. And that’s OK!

There are plenty of positions that help facilitate this rapid rush to the O, and most of them are pretty easy to master. You and your partner can finish and still have time to catch an episode of your favorite Netflix show before falling asleep. Because some days that’s about all the sexy time you can manage.

So until you and your SO can clear your schedules for an evening strictly devoted to lovemaking, these positions can help you make time for sex no matter how busy you get. Because sometimes “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” is all you and your partner can muster, especially when demanding jobs, childcare, and other responsibilities take up most of your time. Thankfully, though, you can get stuff done and still have time for sex.

1. Tabletop

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Yes, a sturdy dining table can help you out considerably. As sex educator Dorian Solot wrote in Cosmopolitan, this works because "he's at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of you, making it easier for him to touch your clitoris, unobstructed." This can help you both take care of business quickly and efficiently.

2. Spooning

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A sexified version of the spooning position can have great benefits for you both. Not only is it relaxing, but "there will be constant pressure directly on your G-spot," as Alexia LaFata explained in Elite Daily. Who knew this cuddly pose could be so effective?  

3. Coital Alignment Technique

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So the name might be kind of clinical, but the results speak for themselves. Sex writer Michael Castleman wrote for Psychology Today that in this technique "the man shifts himself forward so that his chest is closer to one of her shoulders" while in missionary position. This helps his pelvic bone make contact with the clitoris, making female orgasm far more likely.

4. Woman-On-Top

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This great standby can have you finished in no time. As Dr. Hilda Hutcherson wrote for Glamour, this is a great choice because the "clitoris is most likely to be stimulated." Plus, you get to set the pace and pressure.

5. Oral

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A more hands-off approach might help you both. While vaginal sex is "not great at stimulating your super-sensitive clitoris," as sexologist Leanna Wolfe explained to Women's Health, "oral sex fixes that problem." Remember: PIV isn't the only game in town.

6. G-Whiz

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This position with a silly name might have some serious benefits. As explained in Women's Health, you will lie back and put one leg on each of his shoulders, which helps him "target your G-spot." So a little flexibility on your part might go a long way.

7. Reverse Cowgirl

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Here's another one that can help you hit that G-spot in a hurry. As Healthy Women explained, the "reverse cowgirl is another option that allows you to control how deep he goes and which angle you like." Chances are, neither of you will need to wait too long to finish.

8. Upgraded Missionary

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The go-to position for most couples doesn't have to be bland. "Instead of simply lying back as he thrusts in and out of you, sit up halfway, lift your butt, and then slowly lean backward," Tracey Cox wrote in Marie Claire:  This simple twist on an old favorite can speed things up considerably.

9. Sultry Sidewinder

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You have to love Cosmopolitan's ability to name these positions. But they aren't playing around with the Sultry Sidewinder. By going at it when you're both "facing each other on your sides," you can ensure the closeness and intimacy that may lead to speedy climaxes.