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Whether you're a seasoned veteran or a first-time newbie, every parent can feel frustrated or even helpless when it comes to decoding your baby's cries. And any parent would probably be relieved if they could just figure out the signs their baby is in pain, not just fussy. Especially because no parents wants to find out that their child was actually in pain and they ignored it because they thought it was just a cranky phase.
When I first became a mother, I was convinced that every whimper and cry from my newborn son was and indication that something was wrong. Though my own mom told me that all parents go through this stage of paranoia with their first child, it's rarely cause for alarm. Many trips to the (annoyed) pediatrician later, I still couldn't get rid of the nagging fear that my baby could be in real pain.
Though it's always recommended to trust your instincts and take the "better safe than sorry" approach, there are some legit ways to identify if your infant is actually hurting. So if you want to calm your fears or just pick up some interesting info, check out these signs that your baby is in pain and not just being fussy.
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They're Unusually Expressive
According to Michigan University's Health Department, "your baby may be in pain if they grimace, open their mouth, wrinkle their brow, have deep lines around their nose and squeeze their eyes shut."
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Their Fidgeting Looks More Like Shaking
We had a close call when our son was only a few months old. He had been coughing and sneezing a lot, but our pediatrician assured us that all newborns do that and perhaps seasonal allergies were to blame. Our son had some pretty violent coughing spasms, but one day I noticed it seemed more intense and lasted longer. After rushing him to the ER, we discovered that he had likely gotten something stuck in his airway (like phlegm or mucus) and that caused a seizure. Though not every time your infant shakes does that mean they're having a seizure, it's good to know what to look out for when your child is unable to speak yet.
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They're Sensitive About Their Ears
Dr. Max M. April, chair of the committee on pediatric otolaryngology, told Parents that some of the signs your baby is in pain due to an ear infection are,"if your baby becomes more upset when she's lying down, has a fever above 102 degrees, tugs at her ears, or doesn't respond to sounds around her as she normally would."