Chances are, you watch movies about it all the time. You sing songs about it. You may even learn dances that mimic it. Yes, sex is pretty much everywhere. For many people, however, having a real conversation about sex can be daunting. But negotiating your sex life to make sure everyone is happy is one of the most important ways couples can communicate. With this in mind, it's great to know how to discuss changing your sex routine with your partner.
Because even the most liberated people can get shy when discussing this aspect of their lives, it's helpful to start with a few ideas about the best way to kick off this conversation. For instance, casually talking about a new kink while you and your SO are eating dinner may be a fantastic way to broach the subject. Yanking a gimp suit out of the closet when you and your SO are midway through the act may throw your partner for a loop. Not everybody likes surprises.
Above all, trusting your partner and communicating openly are two ways to make sure your sex life is working for everybody. Because no one is a mind reader, you have to verbalize these ideas. Thankfully, there are plenty of fun and playful ways to discuss your sex life that will leave everyone happy and wanting more (conversation, that is).