Mother's Day
Flowers are nice, but that’s just another thing to keep alive.
Mother’s Day is — supposedly — the one day of the year when moms can look forward to some relief. Every single day we love with everything we have, while questioning if we’re doing it right. And we always have a nagging sense of guilt for how our parenting may be lacking. So, when Mother’s Day comes around, we need that massive pat on the back and unending praise, and honestly, we don’t get it enough.
This year has been tough (and all the other words that are a synonym for tough). Moms have tackled remote learning, lack of socialization, birthing babies in a pandemic, working to make memorable experiences for our families despite being quarantined, and managing all the emotions and phases of mental health crisis along the way. Moms consistently keep the family's wheels turning properly, and most of the heroic feats happen behind the scene. You may never see her putting clothes away, but there are always fresh socks when you reach in the drawer. Because we do it so well, it can easily be taken for granted. But without fail, we use our superhero abilities to organize a home while nurturing everyone around us, and then do it all over again the next day.
So after this year of overwhelming added stress, moms deserve to have their partners do these things on Mother’s Day to show their appreciation. You hear that, partners? It’s time to step up.
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Set Up An In-Home Fancy Dinner
Door dash makes this one pretty easy. Order her favorite meal from her favorite restaurant. Children love to be helpful, so you can make this a fun time for both them and mom. Set up a fancy dinner and let everyone in the family cater to her. Throw a napkin over your arm and put on your classy voice.
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Plan A Future Treat For Her Just Because
It’s nice to get all this love on Mother’s Day, but there’s nothing like a random show of love just because. Choose a day on the calendar to surprise her with a me-day in the future to show that you appreciate her every day.
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Make Her Slow Down
Unfortunately, some moms don’t know how to flip the off button and reenergize. If you say you’ll take care of the kids, she may still be in mommy mode by telling you what you should make them for breakfast and trying to stick to a schedule. Show her you got this (even if it takes coercing) and strongly encourage her to turn her brain off. But make sure you really got this, so she doesn’t have to step back in the parenting game for the day.
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Speak Her Language
Is your partner’s love language receiving gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, or quality time? If you buy a bunch of gifts, but she really wants you to mow the lawn and take the kids out of the house, you aren’t filling her love tank. By loving her the way she innately yearns for, you can bring a smile to her face and speak directly to her needs. Take the quick online couple’s quiz so your plans will really make her feel loved and appreciated.