My dearest friends have been in my life way before I had kids. They have saved me from plenty of close calls; with boys, parents and definitely with certain unsaid hairstyles. Some have kids and some don’t, but now that I’m a mother (and more often than not my life revolves around my children) I've realized that it’s my mom friends who have saved my ass from hitting another parenting pitfall.
When we ask for help, we need to choose the right person to ask because we kind of always know what we want to hear. More importantly, we want to make sure that, when asking for that help, we're not opening ourselves up to unnecessary judgment or criticism. It's hard enough to admit that you're in over your head (and trust me, when you're a parent that will happen) without someone making you feel guilty about it. We all want to feel validated in our parenting choices and, on occasion, we need to hear that we're doing it right and we're capable of being the best parent possible (even and especially when we mess up or make a mistake, no matter how big or small). While we know that we're the best person to parent our children, sometimes we just need someone else to say it.
When I'm struggling, as a mom, it’s my mom friends I seek out for support, understanding and advice. Whether it’s giving me a spare pack of wipes or sending an uplifting text when life-with-kids becomes ridiculously hard, there are so many times when my mom friends will save my ass. Here are just a few: