Revving up your sex life does not have to involve lavish vacations or expensive lingerie (although those things certainly do not hurt). In fact, the little things your partner can do for you that lead to a great sex life are all pretty easy and affordable. But they all demonstrate your partner’s desire to have a giving and fulfilling relationship, which is the best aphrodisiac of all.
Spending time together, talking openly, and putting away electronic distractions can make your sexy time that much sexier. The more your partner can focus on you (and vice versa), the more in-tune you will be with one another. And that increased connection will lead to an even hotter love life.
You already know the things you can do for your partner that lead to a great sex life, so now it’s your partner’s turn to get a relationship tune-up. The tips are simple enough — one can literally mean you guys Netflix and chill — but they may lead to big improvements in the bedroom. Because feeling like you’re connected and appreciated is one of the easiest ways to stoke the fires in your relationship. “Accidentally” leaving this piece on your tablet for your SO to read, or sending a direct link if you’re more up-front, is 100 percent acceptable.