It’s an amazing time that we live it, right? We’re on the verge of self-driving cars, we can carry the Internet in our pockets, and we're up to season 20 of The Bachelor. And don’t even get me started in the gajillions of advancements that have occurred in baby-related industries in recent years. Having so many options available sometimes means that moms have to make tough choices about how we feed our kids. Breastfeeding or formula-feeding? When to start solids? Go organic? Avoid gluten? What about sugar? It’s all so overwhelming, I sometimes want to do something dramatic like, oh, I don't know, massage my temples, dramatically slam my laptop closed, or throw a plate (just not one with chopped steamed carrots and cheese cubes, because those take a minute to prepare). Who knew that this parenting thing would require so many decisions? (I mean, everyone knows that, but it doesn't mean it won't feel jarring and annoying when it inevitably happens to you.)
And what happens when you encounter someone who has made different choices? While my preferred response for dealing with someone with whom I disagree is to round-up all of my supermodel friends and Lena Dunham and to then make a futuristic music video about how I’m a badass, sometimes I have to resort to my second choice response, which is to just let it go. Unless we are talking about your pediatrician, or Queen Bey, in which case you should be listening to them and not to me because they know what they're talking about. Granted, I’m not as awesome at simply ignoring Judgy McJudgersons as I would like to be, but I truly believe it’s the best thing to do in that situation, and here’s why: