If there were a satisfaction guaranteed manual for sex, we'd all be reading it. Sex, especially oral sex, is different for so many people. There are so many different techniques and tips out there, that it can be overwhelming to go down on someone. And do we even have to discuss how intimate of a thing that is? I mean, you're all up in someone's crotch trying to make them cum. It doesn't get much closer than that. Though I believe that not every sexual technique works for everyone, I also believe that it's possible to make some big oral sex mistakes that can ruin everyone's good time.
It doesn't matter if you're going down on a guy or a girl, you've probably done a little bit of research. There's always a magazine listing at least half a dozen ways to perfect your oral technique, or an article with some diagram of things to trace with your tongue. But you don't need to create hieroglyphics with your mouth for some amazing oral sex. The more you think about it, especially in the moment, the harder it is to focus and enjoy the task. (Yes, you should enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex.) Just are there are mistakes to be made during intercourse, there are also mistakes to be made during oral. And correcting these mistaked will charge up your game and give you some confidence when you go down south. Stop trying to do some complicated maneuver in the bedroom and focus on correcting these nine mistakes during oral sex. It'll make your job (because oh man, it is totally a job) much easier.