It’s a tale as old as time. You meet someone, you date, you fall in love, and then you break up. Not the most romantic retelling of events, but stories of heartbreak are rarely happy. Unless you’re one of the few who met their soulmate at 16, you’re bound to fall in love and, unfortunately, break up many times in your life. It happens, and it sucks, but it’s made even worse if you’re still in love with your ex after the split.
You may try so hard to hide it, that at first you don’t realize the emotions you’re harboring for your ex. You’ve convinced yourself that the timing was wrong or you’re better off as friends. But once the mourning period passes, you may find yourself sending them a text at 2 a.m. I get it. It’s tough to cut someone completely out of your life, and more difficult to remove them from your heart. Even if you know someone is wrong for you, the fond memories (combined with a little booze) can make you believe that you should be together. But how do you know if this is a fleeting feeling, or if you’ve really got it bad for you ex? Here are nine signs you are still in love with your ex, no matter how hard you try to hide it.