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Ellen Pompeo Talks About The Gender Pay Gap & How Her Job Takes Her Away From Her Kids, & It’s So Real


Grey's Anatomy is one of the most consistently popular network television shows around. It has endured for several reasons; creator Shonda Rhimes is a whiz at creating believable drama, and the characters are hugely appealing. Most especially Meredith Grey, played by Ellen Pompeo; there's a reason she's officially the highest paid woman on television. But don't go thinking it was an easy rise to the top for her; Pompeo talked about the gender pay gap recently, and all of the ways her job takes her away from her kids. Because being a working mom is rarely as uncomplicated as go to work, get paid, go home... no matter who you are.

Pompeo sat down with The Hollywood Reporter recently to discuss her evolving career and personal life. The 48-year-old actress has been working on Grey's Anatomy for nearly 13 years, and has welcomed three children with husband Chris Ivey in that time; daughters Stella Luna and Sienna May, as well as son Eli Christopher. While actors can be notoriously shifty about discussing how much money they actually make, Pompeo decided to come forward and get super real for a great reason: she wants to set an example for other women about empowering themselves in the workplace.

Pompeo is one of the few original Grey's Anatomy cast members to still be on the show, and she told Hollywood Reporter that she wasn't even that interested in doing Grey's initially because she was working on establishing her career as a film actress. And the years of being paid less than her former co-star Patrick Dempsey didn't help, as she told the outlet:

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After Dempsey left, Pompeo eventually approached Rhimes to discuss a pay hike. She and her agent ran some numbers and came to the conclusion that Disney had reportedly made a full $3 billion from Grey's Anatomy, and as the face of the show, perhaps she deserved a bigger piece of the pie. For several reasons; because she had been dedicated to the show for 14 years, because she consistently performed well, and because she had given up a lot to remain where she was. Pompeo said to Rhimes:

Rhimes supported her, and now Pompeo is the highest-paid actress on television. She inked a $20 million per year contract, including a seven-figure signing bonus and $575,000 per episode. Because she said she was finally ready to ask for what she deserves:

Hopefully, other mothers who are struggling to find that balance, trying to deal with the reality of leaving their kids for their job (which isn't always easy), will find their voices as well. To speak up, to know their worth, and to demand what they know they deserve.

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