My partner and I did so much research when it came to pregnancy, labor and delivery. In the excitement that was anticipating our son's arrival we did, however, forget to research what we should expect postpartum. Like the majority of my pregnancy and throughout my labor and delivery, my partner was along for the ride; an active participant, despite the fact that, as a cisgender man, he was unable to experience what I was experiencing. It was no surprise, then, that my partner new all the things every grown-ass man knows about his partner's postpartum body, too, sometimes even before I did.
My partner and I have numerous similarities, but we are also different in a lot of way. He likes to be well-researched and plan out every potential scenario and account for every detail, while I am more of a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of person. I like to just take things as they go and while that's, sometimes, beneficial, it rarely works out when you're parenting. I mean, it's great to be able to adjust in real time and learning when to "let things go" is crucial, but when you're a new parent, it's also helpful to know what you're in for so you can be as prepared as possible. So, when I took a shower a day after I gave birth to my son and looked at my postpartum body for the first time, my shock and subsequent freak out was quelled by my partner, who knew what to expect when it came to my postpartum body (and mind).
Honestly, there are things every grown-ass man should know about women's bodies in general, but especially about a woman's postpartum body and especially when that woman is his partner. Here's a starter list of sorts, so all you grown-ass men out there, start taking notes: