As a parent, I have Googled a lot of truly bizarre questions. Questions I wouldn't have guessed I'd ever ask. "Why does my baby's poop smell like bread?" "Should I worry about baby grunting like French bulldog?" "Why does my baby want to eat socks?" And when I was pregnant? They say there are no stupid questions, but I asked some pretty stupid questions. Like... "If I sneeze too hard does it hurt the baby?" or "Is it OK to wear tights?" I didn't ask most of these questions aloud, mind you, but I asked them in my head. Now here's where we take kind of a serious turn.
Because there are so many questions that pop into our heads when we're pregnant — including, yes, a bunch of kind of silly ones — we wind up holding back on the questions we probably should be asking lest we be perceived as sounding dumb or rude. On top of that (probably even more than that) you don't always know what you don't know, so there are a lot of important questions that go unasked simply because it never strikes us to ask them.
I asked 20 women what question they wish they had asked before giving birth. Here's what they had to say.