9 Reasons Living Close To Your Parents After You Have Kids Is The Absolute Best
byJennifer Germano
When starting my own family, I quickly realized the continued importance of my family, too. Having come from a wonderful family, it didn't take me long to piece together the undeniable face that, hey, living close to your parents after you have kids is pretty awesome. Of course, not everyone feels this way (especially if there are toxic family members in the mix), and even though I liked living by my family, it wasn't always easy, either. Like every other aspect of parenthood, there's good parts and bad parts and you have to simply figure out what works best for you. For me and my family, I think that motherhood is much easier to figure out when you're living next to your parents.
As a mother, I've lived both close and far away from my parents, so I know the benefits and difficulties of both. When you are far away from your family like I was (a 12 hour drive to be exact), your friend group becomes your makeshift family and they take up the roles your parents would otherwise be fulfilling; babysitting, helping with pick-up at daycare, maybe even bringing over a meal or two.
When you live close to your parents, they tend to take up these "assistant duties" without you even asking. In fact, your parents will probably be quick to offer up their babysitting duties on the regular. After all, I don't think I've ever known a grandparent who doesn't want to spend time with their grandchild. While it may be frustrating and trying at times (because, you know, space is nice) there really are so many benefits to living close to your parents after you become one yourself, including the following: