12 Things Your Baby Is Thinking When They're 'Crying It Out'
byJennifer Germano
Arguably the one parenting method no one likes to talk about, much less attempt, is the "cry it out" sleep training method. Who likes to listen to a baby cry, right? If crying means sadness and our baby is crying, they're sad, right? Well, not always. While we tend to associate sadness with crying, because we're conditioned adults, there are countless reasons why a baby cries. Knowing that, I can't help but wonder what babies think when they're crying it out? Are they crying out of anger that their mom or dad isn't doing what they want them to do? Are they crying because they're tired? Because they're hungry? Because they're sad? What are they thinking?
Many parents have so many feelings about "crying it out." Some swear by it, and credit "crying it out" for their peaceful nights of much-needed sleep. Others don't agree with the method which, of course, is their right. In the end, no matter what you do, someone is going to have some thoughts about it. But what about babies? What do the babies think about it? Of course, there's no way of knowing, as they lack the ability to articulate their thoughts in a way we can understand (which could be a good thing or a bad thing), so we're left to our own parenting devices, which usually means our minds will wander when it's the middle of the night and we're up with our babes.
So, in the name of sleep-less nights where I was left wondering what my baby was thinking while we let her "cry it out," here's what I think is going through a baby's mind when they're being sleep trained. As assumed, I think it's much harder for parents than it is for babies.