9 Plans I Made Before Breastfeeding In Public, That Went Right Out The Window
byKristi Pahr
Few things cause moms anxiety (not necessarily new moms, but all moms) than nursing in public. We hear horror stories about women called out and shamed, harassed, or humiliated, because they had the audacity to feed their babies in public. The anxiety of facing an angry mob, coupled with the anxiety of a crying baby, can make even the most seasoned mom second guess herself. When both my sons were newborns, I had all these plans for breastfeeding in public that went right out the window when we actually got down to it.
When my older son was an infant, I had total angst about breastfeeding in public. I could never find my comfort zone. Should I use a cover, or not even bother? Should I go to the car, or just stay in the store? Should I make sure to wear two shirts, or should I try a nursing tank? Until I found our groove, I was riddled with anxiety and paranoia anytime I took my breastfeeding baby out in public. I just knew someone would approach me and say something negative and judgmental. Now that I'm two babies in, I'm more comfortable breastfeeding whenever and wherever, but it definitely took some time.
It can be a scary and intimidating time, especially when you and your baby are still learning the ropes and things don't go as smoothly as you'd hoped. Some moms are fearless and just whip out the boob, not missing a beat or batting an eyelash. They don't use a cover, and they don't have a single worry. Other moms like a little more privacy when nurturing their baby, and choose to use a cover or even take a little trip to their car. I say, go with your comfort level. Every breastfeeding mom tackles nursing in public differently, and sometimes it's a process to find what works for you. So, if you had a few breastfeeding in public plans that went right out the window, know that you're not alone. In fact, here's what I thought I'd do (that I never actually got around to doing, like, at all):