Having a baby can be a wonderfully exciting time in any woman's life, but it can also be a pretty anxious and tiring time, too. Newborns require a lot of work and have this uncanny ability of robbing adults of their sleep, their sanity and (honestly) their will to live. Between the stress and the sleep deprivation, even the most level headed of us end up questioning our sanity and wondering why we thought it was a good idea reproduce in the first place. Still, despite the hardships, there are things grown-ass women do when they have babies that will help them transition into parenthood; things that can make such a drastic life-change more manageable; and things that can make even the most exhausting of newborns, enjoyable and wonderful and, well, all the things we (as new mothers) want to experience.
Every new mother has fears and anxieties at some point and, trust me, that is completely and totally normal. There will be days that seem so painfully long and never-ending, and then there will be days that will fly by and you'll finally start to feel like we have a handle on this whole motherhood thing. Like almost anything else in life, motherhood is an up-and-down experience filled with juxtaposing feelings, and that's never more obvious than your first few days as a new mom. You'll be sore; you'll be overwhelmed; you'll be inundated with information and people who want to meet your new addition and unsolicited advice from those who want to help. Like I said, it's exciting and exhausting and, honestly, when I look back at my first few days as a new mother, they're a blur. I remember bits and pieces, to be sure, but they all kind of bleed together and seem more like a dream than a reality I actually experienced.
Which is why, if you're a grown-ass woman, you'll do these nine things to make sure that those first few days with your new baby are more pleasant and enjoyable, than stressful and taxing. You'll make decisions and choices that set you and your baby up for future success and, well, you'll make no apologies for it. After all, you're a mom now.