Kids in the '90s lived the tail end of the innocence era; a time when there was freedom to be taken advantage of, responsibility to be had (as opposed to being earned), and sugar and F, D & C colors to be consumed. It seems like there are so many things 90s parents did that we wouldn't do now; things I am just now realizing now that I can nostalgically look back at how I was raised. I won't lie: there are certain activities that I'm sad my children have to miss out on.
I think the biggest activity I wish my own kids could experience is the random exploration of their neighborhood. Unabashed (and honestly exploited) freedom is something I still remember with fondness, because it allowed me to be something other than just a little girl. I was an explorer, an adventurer, someone who crossed boundaries and had nothing but nature and my friends to keep me company. No phone tethering me to the outside world, urging me to check Facebook or Instagram my experiences or obsessively check email.
That independence has been tough to provide this current generation of kids, thanks to a world that is generally quite a bit (read: definitely) scarier to live in, especially when you're reading newspaper headlines or watching the news. And if you're on any kind of social media at all, then you don't have any choice but to take notice at all the terrible things that are going on in the world. It's enough to make any parent want to Kimmy Schmidt their children for always.
Kids in the 90s wielded considerably more control over their own lives, whether for better or worse. Our children may never know the joys of letting themselves into the house at the end of the day and settling in for a solid three hours of crappy television, but they will also probably never set their own house on fire because they didn't read the directions on a frozen meal correctly. I guess we all just have to take the good with the bad, huh?
So, with that in mind and in the spirit of nostalgia and maybe even a little thankfulness, here are nine things parents in the '90s let kids do by themselves that no parent would allow their kids to do today: