There's nothing quite as empowering as figuring out what it takes to make yourself orgasm, right? Whether you've started a new relationship or just know what makes yourself happy during masturbation, it's a big deal when you cum. But now you want to know why sometimes your orgasm is the best thing ever, and the next day its lacking all fireworks. You never thought you'd be "meh" about cumming, but it turns out there are some things that affect the power of your orgasm, in both good and bad ways.
Let's make a note here — the problem is not that you can't orgasm. The issue, if you want to call it that, is that sometimes your orgasms are extremely powerful, and the next day its more of a relaxing feeling and not quite as Earth-shattering. When you compare your orgasms, you don't see much of a difference. Same partner or same toy or same masturbation position — so what gives? Well, it could be one of these 13 things affecting the power of your orgasm. Turns out, there's a whole lot of things that play into the way you climax and, for the most part, they're all in your control. Knowledge is power, right? And so is having an amazing orgasm every chance you can.