Can you touch your Elf on the Shelf? If your shelf has ever hosted an elf, your children likely already know the cardinal rule: No touching. But, accidents happen. In the event that a human hand accidentally grazes your family's beloved scout elf, you'll need to know what to do if your Elf on the Shelf is touched.
Per official Elf on the Shelf lore, a touched Scout Elf loses their magic. Learning this fact could leave your kids spiraling down an endless rabbit hole of unwanted outcomes — ending up on the naughty list and Christmas being cancelled being their chief concerns, according to my own kids.
Basic Elf on the Shelf rules
The one major rule to remember about your Scout Elf is the one your kids are most likely to break: don’t touch it. Not by a finger, a toe, an elbow, or any other body part your curious kid decides is worth trying their luck.
Here’s a breakdown of the few basic Elf on the Shelf rules:
- Don’t touch your elf or their magic will disappear.
- Talk to your elf, but know that they can’t talk back.
- Your elf reports to Santa nightly and can deliver letters to him.
- On Christmas Eve, your elf will return to the North Pole and stay there until next season.
But can you touch your elves with gloves or practical tool like kitchen tongs or tweezers? Yes, in necessary situations you can handle your elf as long as there isn’t direct skin-to-skin (er, skin-to-felt?) contact. Potholders, a broom stick, your winter gloves — whatever tool you need to use to safely maneuver or transport your elf are acceptable.
If your little ones start down the path of no return after your elf is touched with human skin, have no fear. When the inevitable happens, there are several ways to handle the mishap. Some ideas are a bit more involved than others, but in the end, they all leave your family's elf with his or her magic restored. Your family's elf will be as good as new, able to report back to Santa, and your kids won't have to worry about getting any coal in their stocking.
Glitter it up
A healthy dose of sparkle always makes everything better, right? While sprinkling loose glitter in your home may not sound like the most practical idea, keeping a small amount of glitter around to use as "magic elf dust" that can bring them back to life if your Elf on the Shelf is accidentally touched can come in handy. If you’re understandably worried about finding glitter all over your house for weeks, you can opt for edible, biodegradable, water-soluble glitter that dissolves in water (or on a sponge), making clean up a breeze.
Make some hot cocoa
To help your Elf on the Shelf feel more like their old self after they lose their magic, you and your kids can make them a tiny elf-sized cup of hot cocoa and marshmallows. If your Elf on the Shelf is touched accidentally, their magic may come back even faster if they share some cocoa and marshmallows with your kids, and this could be a fun time to try out a trendy hot chocolate bomb.
Skip a day
If your kids purposefully touch their Elf on the Shelf, you can have their elf spend a day away at the North Pole. Write a brief letter from your elf to explain that because they were touched, they have to spend the day getting their magic fixed at the North Pole and there will be no fun antics happening that day. This should help kids understand that they don't need to touch the elf again, and it gets you an evening off from racking your brain for new hiding spots.
Send them to the elf hospital
Losing their magic could make your elf sick. So sick, in fact, that the next day, your kids could wake up and find them resting on a box of tissues after spending the night in the elf hospital with a note signed by Santa explaining that your elf needs to rest for a few days after being touched. (This also gives you a couple of nights worth of a reprieve from elf duty, so it's a win-win.)
Perform a good deed
Your kids can help earn their elf's magic back by doing good deeds if your Elf on the Shelf is touched. They can clean their room, walk the dog, help you carry in the groceries, or perform any number of helpful tasks to help gain your elf's magic back. You might just be surprised at how many chores your child is willing to do to earn their elf's magic powers back and save themselves from winding up on the naughty list.
Freeze your elf
Just like Elsa, your Elf on the Shelf can gain powers from the icy cold. When your Elf on the Shelf is touched, transport them via kitchen tongs to the freezer to allow the elf time for their magic to be restored in a sub-zero condition similar to that of the North Pole. This seems a little dark, but you’re bringing that sorcery back.
Put them in a safe spot
If your kids just refuse to keep their hands off of your Elf on the Shelf, it’s time to consider protective measures. This scout elf carrier is totally clear so that your kids can safely mess with your elf without disturbing their magic powers.
Elf on the Shelf is such a magical way to enjoy the holidays with your kids, but it really only works if that magic stays in tact. Now that you know what to do if your Elf on the Shelf is touched, you can keep the magic alive all season long.
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