9 Helpful Things To Say To A Mom Using The "Cry It Out" Method
byJennifer Germano
Crying it out is a personal choice, and one that isn't always an easy one to make. Even if you're steadfast in your decision and you know without a shadow of a doubt that it's the best one for your baby (and yourself) it can still be difficult. After all, no one likes to hear their baby cry, even if it's just for a few minutes at a time. Thankfully, there are some helpful things people can say to a mom who's crying it out that can make the entire exhausting, difficult but ultimately worthwhile process much, much easier.
When I was using the "crying it out" method with my daughter I, unfortunately, was on the receiving end of a few stares, glares, and judgmental looks from people; especially when I told them that we were sleep training and "crying it out" was the method we had decided to use. As a new mom still getting the hang of this whole parenting thing, those stares and glares made me question if I was, in fact, a "good mother," if I knew what I was doing, and if I could do this well. In other words, those judgments left me feeling totally inept.
Rather than judging moms for their decisions, we (collectively, as a society, and individually as human beings) should start trusting them and their instincts and their ability to make the right decisions for themselves and their families. It's amazing what can happen when a new mom is built up and reassured and supported. So, with that in mind, here are just a few helpful things a mom currently "crying it out" would absolutely love to hear: