10 Reasons Parenting In The Fall Is Different Than Parenting During Any Other Season
bySabrina Joy Stevens
Autumn is far and away my favorite season. As a nerdy child who actually preferred reading to running outside, I always welcomed the return of school. Once the novelty of being back in school wore off, I loved that fall consisted of multiple "days off," sprinkled throughout the calendar. All of my favorite holidays happen in the fall, most of the things I like to do outside are fall-specific activities, and fall is the season of tall boots and sweater weather. Now that I'm a mom, I notice that parenting in the fall is different than the other seasons, too.
Fall is really rich with opportunities for family traditions big and small, from a big-deal Thanksgiving dinner, to weekly college football rituals. Passing on traditions that make us happy is easily one of the best parts of being a parent, so I'm constantly on the lookout for ways to help our kids feel as excited and happy about this time of year as I do. Especially now that my youngest is a toddler and is better able to participate in things (and can form memories), I get so excited just thinking about all the things he's going to be able to experience for the first time, like actually picking his own apples when we go apple-picking, and getting to play with his own pumpkin when we visit the pumpkin patch.
Of course, fall also features a few unique quirks that require a bit of extra patience and grace as a parent. Fall is itself a season-long transition, and there are also plenty of social and schedule-specific transitions that can be challenging for kids, which in turn is challenging for us as their parents. While fall for parents may not be as simple as fall for kids, there are at least two major advantages to experiencing fall as a grown-up: mulled wine and Oktoberfest. Prost! May your autumn be as sweet as cider, and may your kids actually let you enjoy an extra hour of sleep when Daylight Savings Time ends. (Fat chance, I know.)
Leaves Everywhere
Changing, falling leaves are pretty and irresistible to little kids. Dressing kids for leaf stomping, rolling, and crunching is essential, as is having your phone handy for adorable photo opportunities and arming yourself with a strategy for keeping leaves outside of your home. They tend to creep in via tiny pockets and shoes.
All Pumpkin Everything
Pumpkin picking, pumpkin carving, pumpkin decorating, pumpkin-shaped crafts, pumpkin spice treats; basically everything becomes pumpkin-themed for a few months. If you love pumpkin like I do, then this is great. If you’re a pumpkin hater like my partner, then you kinda have to suck it up ‘cause pumpkin stuff becomes an unavoidable part of life when you’re parenting in the fall. (And you have to dress a small child as a pumpkin for Halloween at least once. I'm pretty sure it's the law.)