Pregnancy sex hasn't always been amazing for me. In fact, sex during my first two pregnancies can be best described as "meh." Between morning sickness, body image issues, aches, pains, and a less-than-stellar partner, I didn't have a single orgasm. Not one. For me, sex without orgasms is like dry toast. I mean, it's OK, I guess, but not something I'm going to go out of my way to experience. Then I met my husband and wow was I completely (and pleasantly) surprised. So it's time to talk about pregnancy orgasms, you guys, because holy hot damn.
I love sex, and I am not ashamed to admit it. Which is why, of course, I'm constantly telling people off for slut-shaming sexy moms. Moms can and do have sex (that's how many people get pregnant in the first place, after all), and sex and being sexy don't have to stop when you get pregnant. I mean getting pregnant and becoming a mom has certainly made sex more infrequent than it used to be, and sometimes it can require some planning and creativity, but pregnancy orgasms can be amazing, totally different, and pleasantly surprising.
I am not sure why they were so amazing, though. Maybe it was the increased blood flow to my clitoris and vagina, the hormones, my ultra sensitive nipples, or the fact that my husband and I used lube to combat dryness. It might have been the different sex positions we tried as my pregnancy progressed, extra communication about what was and was not working for me ,or the closeness we felt about my pregnancy in general. Regardless of why, these damn pregnancy sex orgasms had me saying, "Wow."
So if you are pregnant and want to test this out yourself, break out your vibrator or find a willing partner. You might just find yourself, like me, pleasantly surprised in the following ways: